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How to turn negative dating profile statements into positive outlooks

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

Erika Ettin | Tribune News ServiceAs a dating coach, I’ve read a lot of online dating profiles … which also means I’ve read a lot of bad dating profiles. From bad grammar to lack of photos and rants about politics, many things can turn me (and my clients) off to a person’s bio, but perhaps the worst perpetrator is general negativity.More often than I wish to see (which is ever), profiles are filled with what a person is not looking for in a partner, what they don’t like to do, or what they won’t tolerate in a relationship.If I asked the authors of these bios what they are trying to achieve with these statements, they might argue they are trying to rule out anyone who doesn’t align with their values or interests. While they think they are saving time by being frank about their beliefs, they’re actually cutting out not just those who don’t perfectly match with them but also those who might, but are left with a bad taste in their mouth by the profile’s pessimism.Instead of focusing on ...

Reggie Miller explains why Knicks-Cavs series is too close to call

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

It’s the most compelling playoff series in the Eastern Conference, and Reggie Miller isn’t buying the betting odds that show the Knicks as a healthy underdog against Cleveland.“It’s a pick-em series,” Miller, the former Knicks nemesis and now an analyst on TNT, said Thursday in a conference call.Still, Miller acknowledged that the health of Julius Randle — who remained a limited participant in practice Tuesday because of a sprained ankle — can easily swing the pendulum.“Either way, one of these teams are going to be disappointed if they lose,” said Miller, who is calling Game 2 of the series on Tuesday for TNT. “The health of Julius Randle, to me — I want to see how he’s moving in Game 1 [on Saturday in Cleveland] and throughout this series. Because before this injury, he was playing at an All-Pro level. He puts so much pressure on the opposing team’s defense.“So if that’s taken away, sure it l...

‘The Last Thing He Told Me’ review: Jennifer Garner turns amateur detective seeking clues about her missing husband

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

Nina Metz | Chicago TribuneWhen a man disappears after his workplace is raided by the FBI, his wife is bluntly informed: “People don’t run for no reason.” That’s exactly what he’s done: The man has dropped out of sight. Starring Jennifer Garner and “Game of Thrones” alum Nikolaj Coster-Waldau, “The Last Thing He Told Me” on Apple TV+ is adapted from the 2021 novel by Laura Dave, and if there ever was a candidate for “shoulda been a movie,” this series is it.Instead, it clocks in at seven episodes. The good news: It gets better as it goes.Garner plays Hannah, an artist who makes wooden bowls, which is a character trait that is both specific yet tells us almost nothing about her. She’s a jeans-and-clogs kind of gal, that’s all I got. She’s recently married to a software ace named Owen (Coster-Waldau) and they live on a charming, idyllic houseboat in Sausalito, California, along with Owen’s 16-year-old daughter Bailey (Angourie Rice). Unhappy to have a stepmother foisted on her, Bailey...

Major Indiana plastics fire nearly out but residents worry

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

RICHMOND, Ind. (AP) — A major industrial fire fueled by tons of scrap plastics in an Indiana city was close to being extinguished Thursday after burning for more than 48 hours, though an evacuation order for people living near the disaster remained in place, authorities said.Richmond officials also disclosed more details about the city’s dealings with a man who was operating the business where the fire occured. They said Seth Smith was barred from accepting more plastics for resale, following a 2020 cleanup order, but he was allowed to keep selling a vast collection still on hand. “Unfortunately with the pandemic, it became a down market,” city attorney Andrew Sickmann told reporters.“It was hard to specify a deadline because this was a massive undertaking. There’s a lot of material there,” Sickmann said. “Our deadline was just as fast as possible.”The fire at the 14-acre former factory site in Richmond, population 35,000, began Tuesday afternoon. Clouds of black s...

Quebec provincial police officer killed on duty remembered as mother, wife, protector

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

TROIS-RIVIÈRES, Que. — A Quebec provincial police officer who was killed while on duty was remembered Thursday as a mother, a daughter, a friend and as a policewoman who dedicated her career to keeping others safe.Thousands of officers and first responders from across North America gathered in Trois-Rivières, Que., for the funeral of Sgt. Maureen Breau. The 20-year veteran of the force was fatally stabbed while serving an arrest warrant on March 27 in Louiseville, Que., about 100 kilometres northeast of Montreal.As her casket, draped in the Quebec flag, was carried into the church by eight officers, others watched with tears streaming down their faces. Along with her husband, Daniel Sanscartier, and two children, Khéraly and Emrick, three officers who were present the night she died accompanied the casket.During the funeral, speakers paid tribute to Breau’s long career but also to her devotion to her family. They noted that the 42-year-old was not just an officer but also a mo...

Dairy farm explosion injures 1 person, kills 18,000 cattle

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

DIMMITT, Texas (AP) — An explosion at a dairy farm in the Texas Panhandle that critically injured one person and killed an estimated 18,000 head of cattle is the deadliest barn fire recorded since the Animal Welfare Institute began tracking the fires.Castro County Sheriff Salvador Rivera has said the Monday fire and explosion at Southfork Dairy Farm near Dimmitt was likely caused by overheated equipment and would be investigated by state fire marshals.“This would be the most deadly fire involving cattle in the past decade, since we started tracking that in 2013,” institute spokesperson Marjorie Fishman said Thursday.The institute also tracks barn fires that kill other livestock, including poultry, pigs, goats and sheep.“The deadliest barn fire overall since we began tracking in 2013 … was a fire … at Hi-Grade Egg Producers North, Manchester, Indiana, which killed 1 million chickens,” according to Fishman.A 2022 report by the institute noted “several instances in which 10...

Biden celebrates new bridges as campaign season nears

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — The Biden administration is awarding nearly $300 million to help repair or replace more than a dozen bridges across the country, closing out a three-week tour to highlight the benefits of infrastructure investments in local communities.Events in four states on Thursday marked the end of the beginning phase of an increasingly expansive White House effort to remind voters of his President Joe Biden’s accomplishments heading into his expected 2024 reelection race.During the administration’s “Investing in America” tour, Biden, Vice President Kamala Harris and other officials held more than 50 events across 25 states at projects benefiting from the landmark infrastructure, climate and high-tech manufacturing laws passed during the Democratic president’s first two years in office.There will be much more talk to come about Biden’s record.“This is the focus of the next year-plus,” White House chief of staff Jeff Zients, who got the job in February w...

Hamilton declares state of emergency over opioids, homelessness, mental health

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

Hamilton’s city council declared a state of emergency on Thursday over homelessness, opioid addiction and mental health issues in the city.A motion approving the emergency call does not immediately compel the southern Ontario city to launch new programs to redress the widening crises.But it will see Mayor Andrea Horwath ask the provincial government to act on recommendations from a local group of public health agencies.Those include expanding services and harm reduction programs for people suffering from addiction, after a January report showed opioid-related deaths and overdoses in Hamilton had “increased exponentially.”The report said there were 26 opioid-related deaths in 2005 compared to 166 in 2021, noting that over 65 per cent of them were among males between 25 and 65 years old.Horwath will also call on the province to correct a funding model for homelessness, after a 2021 auditor general report found the province was not allocating enough resources to the i...

Doctor acquitted in 14 patient deaths sues health system

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

DETROIT (AP) — An Ohio doctor acquitted in the deaths of 14 patients who died after they were given painkillers has filed a lawsuit against a national Catholic health system that operates the hospital where he worked in the intensive care unit.William Husel claims malicious prosecution and names Trinity Health Corp. in a complaint filed Wednesday in federal court in Detroit. He is seeking a jury trial and at least $20 million in damages.Husel was accused of ordering painkillers for patients in the Columbus-area Mount Carmel Health System. He was indicted in cases that involved the use of at least 500 micrograms of the powerful painkiller fentanyl.Prosecutors in that case had said ordering such dosages for a nonsurgical situation indicated an intent to end lives. Husel’s attorneys argued he was providing comfort care for dying patients, not trying to kill them.A jury found Husel not guilty of 14 counts of murder in April 2022.Husel was fired in late 2018 from Mount Carmel West Hospit...

Demand for fruit trees increases as gardening season arrives in Greater Toronto Area

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 21:42:33 GMT

As the Greater Toronto Area basks in a temporary stretch of warm weather, it’s ushering in gardening season and an increased interest in planting food-bearing trees, shrubs and plants.At the Woodhill Garden Centre at the border of Toronto and Vaughan, there has been a surging demand for one particular category.“Very definite demand for anything edible. Every day we’re getting several phone calls about fruit trees. ‘What are they coming? How do I plant them?'” Ian McCallum, the centre’s manager, told CityNews. “I would say it happens every year but this year there’s more of [calls] and earlier. It’s basically everything, but fruit trees at this time of year are in the biggest demand. People want wild cherries specifically, cherries are huge, but the other ones are being asked for as well.”It’s unclear what’s driving that demand, but with surging inflation impacting the price of fresh fruit and vegetables it might...